What’s wrong with “sexy”?

What’s wrong with sexy? “It misses the point.” So says my colleague, dance partner, Reiki teacher and author, Julia Kopala. Easy for her to say. I am a man. Everything has to do with sex. Right? What other point could there be? Oh sure, my libido has ratcheted down considerably as I approach the sunset … Read more

Tango and the Pursuit of Pleasure

Nothing prepared me for this. In fact, I had invested a good portion of my life energy trying to avoid it. In what is dubbed as a pleasure-seeking society I was certainly an anachronism, a Victorian Era throwback. How did I end up dancing Argentine tango?

The Good Men Project

Check out my recent tango blog on the e-mag, The Good Men Project. http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/transforming-through-tango-gmp/#sthash.WFEI6O8F

Tango Touch

It is easy to become mesmerized by the glitz and glamour and technicality of tango.
But the older I get, the more intrigued I become with the basics …

Tango: Wondrous and Preposterous

How do I nurture an appreciation for the magic and mystery of tango?
(even when I am screwing up the steps or dancing with my least favourite partner)

Answer: Breathe in the WONDER.

Magical Mystery Tour, pt. 2

How competent are you?   Unconscious Incompetence: We don’t know what we don’t know.  Blissful ignorance. It is unconscious incompetence that allows the first-time follow  to perform complex dance maneuvers without awareness of what he/she is doing or why. (see previous blog). He/she just blindly follows her partner and her instincts. Oh, that this could last. … Read more