Saulve for the Raw Ego.

10 years after this was originally posted I learned this lesson: Dance is play. Have fun.  ego rub #1 The sign over the garbage can at the entrance reads: “DEPOSIT EGO HERE.” Missed that. When will introductory classes stop feeling like introductory classes? How many years will I be dancing before I can walk away … Read more

Dancing in the Dark.

We ought to dance with rapture that we are alive, and in the flesh, and part of the living incarnate cosmos. D. H. Lawrence.* The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not extinguished it. Gospel of John* This little light of mine. I’m going to let it shine. Traditional* …..A friend recently … Read more

$20 for a Hug?

Is $20 good value for a street-legal hug? It’s hard to keep track of the street value of differing commodities these days, in large part because the neighbourhood has changed.  There was a time when you could buy almost anything on almost any street corner, from drugs to sex to pieces from your neighbour’s bike. … Read more

Should I break the mirror?

Just off one of those humiliating videotapings which due to some masochistic tendency, I feel compelled to subject myself from time to time. This is my desperate search for perspective and consolation …. “The two distinguishing elements of the Tango are sensuality and elegance.” Carlos Gavito. – “Ah, therein lies the rub.” Shakespeare. – … … Read more

Dancing With a Child’s Mind

The inspiration for this blog is a brilliant post from www.DailyOm.com “Learning to Follow” (included below in full), that encourages us to approach and inhabit everything we do, including dancing Tango, with a child’s mind.  “(Children) live their lives fully immersed in the present moment, seeing everything with the open-mindedness born of unknowing. This enables … Read more

The Last Waltz?

My sister, Nikki, passed away Monday Jan 20 with ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease). It was a long and tortuous journey in which she slowly lost her ability to walk, talk, swallow and toilet herself.  As we lived in different provinces, our recent contact was limited to three visits, once at my daughter’s wedding and twice … Read more

The Gift of You

Ever wondered if Tango is really worth the effort? The answer will surprise you. Read on… Non-verbal Communication “Tango is a secret between friends shared without words.” Carlos Gavito. Eighty percent of all communication is non-verbal. Why do we not know this? Typically we are unaware of the what or how we are communicating. The … Read more

Dancing With Presence

A spiritual take on dance. Dance is a moving mindfulness meditation, an embodied prayer, a self-emptying surrender to the eternity of the moment, a deep bow to the bewildering grandeur of what is. We are all participants in this dance.  We are all dancers. We are all moving in response to the primal thrumming of … Read more

Caressing the Earth

I am happy before I have a reason. I am full of light even before the sky Can greet the sky or the moon. Dear companions, We have been in love with the Divine For so very, very long. What can we now do but Forever Dance! Hafiz “We can … through dance … discover … Read more