The Time to Grieve

To everything there is a season, … A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance… The Book of Ecclesiastes.   Let’s face it. These times are painful – for everyone. We were not made to isolate. We are social creatures. We gain our sense of … Read more

International Women’s Week

“The real troubles in this world seem to settle on the misalignment of men and women.” Stone Diaries., Carol Sheilds. This is International Women’s Week. I dug into my archives to pull out some material that I feel gives expression to feminine power which deserves to be showcased in Tango as well as in other … Read more

Early Morning Intimacy

A Waking Ritual, or, Once over easy. For mature eyes only: Excuse me for straying a bit from my Tango monologue (it comes in at the end) and getting a little more personal. Early Morning Rituals The pattern to our early mornings is for the most part set. I rise first, typically before 7:30. There … Read more

The Last Tango.

Making sense of loss, “Mary Oliver style”. Heather Waldie died this past month at the age of 64 from cancer. She made a deep connection with all of us at Monday Tango Cafe and we are grieving the loss. Join with me in some reflections on Heather’s life and the lasting connection that one makes … Read more

The Sulphur Gates

The Sulphur Gates, in a remote part of northwestern Alberta, is one of the most dramatic river vistas in the Rockies. The stunning viewpoint of the confluence of the Smoky and Sulphur rivers, near Grande Cache, is from the edge of a cliff overhanging the boiling water 300 below where the two rivers merged.

Lost in the Fog

One woman wanted to kick him in the ass. Another wanted to coddle him sympathetically. A few men understood his confliction.

Some of the comments to Lost Love in the Fog, the prologue to my new writing project/ book: The Art of Intimacy: a dance through sex, sensuality and spirituality. I would be delighted to have you join me on this journey and welcome any comments as these will guide my exploration. Vaminos!